Be your own main character

Have you ever felt or do you ever feel like you are someone’s sidekick ? That no matter what you do it won’t change anything and just leave it to the “main character”? I felt like everyone would probably feel down sometime in their life and I just want to say that everyone is the main character in their own life.

When I say main character, who do you think of? Or how do you think they should act? Do you think of Cher from Clueless or Regina George from Mean Girls or even Barbie? It’s true that these main characters are extroverted and are always confident, however there are also main characters who are shy, introverted or even awkward like Belle from Beauty and the Beast or Bella from Twilight.

You need to be confident in yourself. Be you. Don’t be afraid to be yourself. You will shine brighter when you are your truest self. Pretending to be someone who you’re not won’t get you far. Yes, you can fake it till you make it, but if you don’t feel comfortable doing it then it shouldn't be your only option.

“You are the author of your own story, so make sure you make YOU the main character.”

Try being optimistic and put yourself out there. It doesn’t have to be something drastic, try with something small and prove the people who underestimate you wrong. There will always be beauty in every scene in your life. Dress up to go throw your garbage or even dress down to go on a date. Do whatever you like and whatever you feel is the most comfortable for you. YOU should be your top priority. No one’s opinion about you should matter more than your own opinion about yourself.